College visits. Standardized tests. Applications. Personal statements. Recommendations. Getting accepted. Choosing a school. Choosing a major. Building a career path… High school students like yours are faced with the pressure to accomplish every step of the college search process. Even for the most proactive students, the process requires a significant level of patience and persistence. So as a parent, how can you help? What power do you possess to relieve some of the stress that comes with these life-changing choices? The answer is simple. Support. As someone who knows your student like the back of your hand, you are their best soundboard. You know their thought processes and how to fill in the blanks if they’re having trouble expressing what they need or want. Even if you didn’t attend college, your guidance is worth more to them than they know. Here are five ways you can help smooth their journey to college:
Attend the college visits
You can imagine that this would happen by default if your student cannot drive to a prospective school. But your presence has value as they begin making these college decisions. This is an opportunity to ask the questions they might not think of. Get a gauge of their reactions to the architecture, people, and accommodations on the campuses. The campuses are places that you could potentially send your student to stand on their own two feet, so don’t be afraid to develop your personal opinions. Plus, you can string a number of visits together to turn it into their own personal college tour. These are bonding moments just waiting to happen!
Help them with the research
They have many factors to consider when choosing a school, and it can be overwhelming. Take some of the stress from them by doing your own research and bring your findings to them to see what they think. Be careful not to push your suggestions on their too hard to the point that they’re completely off their radar.
Think about their strengths and skills
Your student may not have a particular field of study that their interested in, but they may possess a skill that can translate into a major or potential career. For example, your student may be good at creating presentations. Marketing could be a fitting major for them, and it is a field of study that is applicable in many industries.
Utilize your own network and resources
Do you know someone who works in the career that your student is considering? Get your student connected with them to discuss the ins and outs of their work. That first-hand experience and insight may be valuable to their research. You can also think in terms of financial support with resources like, tuition benefits, VA benefits, or college savings plans. Every little bit counts!
Remind the of the big picture
It is your job to help them stay grounded and possess a holistic view of their choices. Does the school’s prestige come with a higher cost? Can they take advantage of the delicious food options as after their freshman and sophomore years? Does the school offer season tickets for their sporting events? Are there changes that could affect their financial aid from year to year? Your students should consider the pros and cons of every aspect, and you can help keep them on track. Finding the right school can seem like a 500-piece puzzle that your student is trying to put together. With your help, they will be able to complete the picture that is their bright future!